when your friend gets the blessing before you!

Heyyyyy,

So I've been pondering on this topic lately its been on my mind for a while now so I felt like I just needed to go ahead and talk about it, even tho NO ONE wants to talk about it, the best way to get through things are talking about it, and I mean like talking talking about it no sugar coating it cause lets be real, we look at God like whats up bruh? they’ve only known each other for 2 weeks and they in a relationship already, you know!!! I know You've been thinking about it. So lets talk about it, I think this is such an important topic to talk about because at some point we all desire to be married, we all desire to be in a relationship, wondering, praying, crying like am I not good enough, whats wrong with me so on and so fourth, but what we fail to realize is that we are PLANTED in certain seasons for a reason, we all have seasons that we go through, I don't think we understand truly how important our seasons are, different seasons of your life prepare you for what's coming! I don't think its fair that we compare our seasons to someone else Is that even fair to God? Honestly its not really fair, that ultimately means we don't have faith that he will provide for us, we don't trust him, we don't know that he wants the best for us. We have to get out the way go God and TRUST his process and timing!!! Think about this if your husband came into your life right now would you be prepared to be his helpmate? would you be prepared for his vision for the family? Would you be ready? No probably Not!! Are you at that point in your life where you can submit to authority and listening? Come on now lets be real about it, some of us don't even like when our boss tells us to do something lol 😭 I am a firm believer that Gods timing is perfect, don't go walking around being jealous of what someone else has, your timing is your timing, your season is your season, get on Gods TIMING! You never know what they had to go through to get to where they are now. Remember his will not your will!!! Another thing you should be ROOTING for your sister, Pray for your sister, pray for their relationship, don’t be fake happy for them, are you being a true friend at this point? Can you still root for your friend after they win? ✨

Let this be your reminder, God sees you, he knows each and every desire of your heart, his plans are always better than ours, war for your friends that are in their winning season, it should feel like your winning season also cause you love, support and want to see Gods best for them, your time will come, God hasn't forgot about you!

“And don’t be wishing you were someplace else or with someone else. Where you are right now is God’s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there. God, not your marital status, defines your life. Don’t think I’m being harder on you than on the others.”

‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:17‬ ‭MSG‬‬